NEW MESSAGE SETS

SMS4dads has extended its service to include additional message sets to support dads when things don’t go to plan.

The new messages have been co-written by researchers, health professionals and incorporate feedback from both dads and mums with lived experience.

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Who are the messages for?

NEW MESSAGE SETS INCLUDE

MENTAL HEALTH MESSAGES

For fathers whose partners experience perinatal depression and/or anxiety

NICU MESSAGES
For dads whose babies arrive early or have medical issues and spend time in NICU (Neonatal Intensive Care Unit) or a SCN (Special Care Nursery)

GRIEF MESSAGES
For fathers who experience the loss of a baby through miscarriage, stillbirth or other medical complications

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How were they developed?

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The message sets have been crafted by health professionals, researchers, an Aboriginal Advisory Group along with input from parents with lived experience of these circumstances.  They are short bite-sized texts with info, tips and support .

The content is on based around three themes: 

  • Bonding & attachment
  • Supporting your partner
  • Self-care and linking in with support if needed
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OUR PARTNERS

SMS4dads partnered with national leaders – PANDA, Red Nose, Life’s Little Treasures and Miracle Babies Foundation – to co-design and implement the new messages. 

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When things don't go to plan - research
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FIND OUT MORE ABOUT MESSAGE DEVELOPMENT & IMPLEMENTATION

MENTAL HEALTH MESSAGES

'SMS4dads is one of the best things I’ve ever accessed for any type of support' SMS4dads Participant

EXAMPLE MESSAGES

4Dad: Even the strongest people have self-doubt about parenthood. Talking with mum about her fears and yours can help. No solutions needed – just listening can help.

4Dad: If mum is overwhelmed your baby needs your attention even more. The tone in your voice and your eye contact can make positive connections in your baby’s brain. More info on bonding HERE
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FIND OUT WHAT DAD'S SAY

Here ARE SOME clips SHOWCASING PARENTs' STORIES

Listen in to dads and mums talking about their experiences

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Richard’s research revealed possible long-term negative impacts on the children of dads with mental health issues. Fathers’ depressive symptoms in the first year after the birth predicted behaviour problems in their children years later.

“If dads’ mental health has such a dramatic impact then we need to be screening dads for depression, not just mums,” Richard explains.

In response to these limitations, Richard and his team have designed a smart-phone based program that allows mobile connection for new and expectant dads.

Participants receive texts containing information and links, and self-report their mood. If the mood tracker identifies dads as needing extra support, they will be offered a phone call from a counsellor trained in this area.

Following the success of the pilot of the SMS4dads program, Funding was received to enable a National roll-out.

“When dad’s miss antenatal classes or activities, they also miss out on contact and links to other people.  They may never get the chance to say to anyone, look I’m really stressed,” he points out.

“SMS4dads is a way of bringing dads into the health system and keeping them linked in with services and support,” explains Richard.

SMS4dads

Richard Fletcher

Associate Professor, PhD

Richard credits a varied career, a talented and innovative team, and much life experience for affording him the insight needed to address the challenges related to actively engaging dads.

After completing his masters in Medical Science, studying epidemiology, Richard earned his PhD focusing on fathers and attachment.

“Fathers are invisible in many places, and that is endemic. Not because people dislike fathers, but because the system is set up to be focused on mothers.”

Some services and organisations are aware of the need to engage dads, but have been unsuccessful in their attempts.

“When people are challenged about this, they generally want dads involved,” Richard affirms.

“Often, however, they just don’t know how to do it.”

Richard works with health professionals on issues related to fathers, and has delivered many antenatal programs for expectant dads.

He credits his own family with giving him an understanding of the role of fathers needed to make his work relevant.

“I have three daughters and two stepdaughters,”

“My kids would say they taught me just about everything I know and they’d be right. They’ve taught me a lot, and still do.”

Richard’s research revealed possible long-term negative impacts on the children of dads with mental health issues. Fathers’ depressive symptoms in the first year after the birth predicted behaviour problems in their children years later.

“If dads’ mental health has such a dramatic impact then we need to be screening dads for depression, not just mums,” Richard explains.

In response to these limitations, Richard and his team have designed a smart-phone based program that allows mobile connection for new and expectant dads.

Participants receive texts containing information and links, and self-report their mood. If the mood tracker identifies dads as needing extra support, they will be offered a phone call from a counsellor trained in this area.

Following the success of the pilot of the SMS4dads program, Funding was received to enable a National roll-out.

“When dad’s miss antenatal classes or activities, they also miss out on contact and links to other people.  They may never get the chance to say to anyone, look I’m really stressed,” he points out.

“SMS4dads is a way of bringing dads into the health system and keeping them linked in with services and support,” explains Richard.